DATING, LOVE,AND RELATIONSHIP COACH
You’re Thriving in Every Area of Life, So Why is Finding Love Still Feel So Challenging?
Discover how i can help You!
You’ve read the books, listened to the advice, and tried different approaches...yet you still find yourself stuck in the same dating patterns or
attracting emotionally
unavailable partners.
You’ve read the books, listened to the advice, and tried different approaches...yet you still find yourself stuck in the same dating patterns
or attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
You’re not alone, and it’s not random.
Does this sound familiar?
You’re successful, confident, and thriving in so many areas of life… so why is love the one place where you feel stuck?
You meet a guy, things feel promising, and then suddenly… he pulls away.
You’re tired of mixed signals, bread-crumbing, and emotionally unavailable men.
Your friends say you're a "great catch" so why does dating feel so frustrating?
You overanalyze texts, hold back your needs, and wonder if you're doing something wrong.
You’re starting to wonder if you’ll have to settle to find love.
It’s time to break the cycle and create the love life you deserve.
If you’re asking yourself these questions,
you’re in the right place.
If you’re asking yourself these questions, you’re in the right place.
MEET YOUR RELATIONSHIP COACH
I remember feeling stuck and questioning everything, wondering if I’d ever find the kind of love I truly deserved. Between unsolicited advice from my married friends and men who couldn’t commit, it felt like the odds were stacked against me.
What I didn’t realize at the time was that certain patterns and beliefs were holding me back from the connection I craved.
Today, I’m a Vancouver-based dating coach for women, working with clients around the world to build confidence, navigate modern dating, and attract healthy, committed relationships.
Over the past 15 years, I’ve helped hundreds of women transform their dating lives by:
a dating, love, &
relationship coach.
I'm Nicole
hello!
I See You, Because I've Been You
- Recognize unhealthy dating patterns & stop wasting time on the wrong men.
- Trust themselves fully and communicate their needs with confidence.
- Attract emotionally available, commitment-ready men who step up.
- Tap into the power of their feminine energy
- Trust themselves fully and communicate their needs with confidence.
- And so much more.
I See You, Because I’ve Been You.
I'm Nicole
A DATING, LOVE & RELATIONSHIP COACH
What I didn’t realize at the time was that certain patterns and beliefs were holding me back from the connection I craved.
Today, I’m a Vancouver-based dating coach for women, working with clients around the world to build confidence, navigate modern dating, and attract healthy, committed relationships.
Over the past 15 years, I’ve helped hundreds of women transform their dating lives by:
MEET YOUR RELATIONSHIP COACH
- Recognize unhealthy dating patterns & stop wasting time on the wrong men.
- Trust themselves fully and communicate their needs with confidence.
- Attract emotionally available, commitment-ready men who step up.
- Tap into the power of their feminine energy.
- Become magnetic to the kind of love they deserve.
- And so much more
FEATURED IN
I got recommended to Nicole by a friend. I was in an all time love low. I booked 1:1 session with Nicole and I was hooked. She taught me to love myself most. Know my worth, love a man that shows up, no game playing and best of all she taught me to let go. Let go of past relationships, heartbreak and thinking I wasn't enough. I took this into my next serious relationship and now I'm married. Thank you Nicole your time and advice.
"Nicole taught me to love myself most and know my worth"
Nicole helped me realized my self-worth. Through her caring nature and motivating coaching, she helped me create a new story of my past. She helped me see and believe that I am capable of loving again, that I am deserving off all that my heart desires and wants in a relationship, and that I am worth it! I am now attracting more of the men that I need and want in my life.
Nicole's approach is very meaningful; she is understanding and makes you feel so up-lifted after having sessions with her.
"She helped me see and believe that I am capable of loving again"
Before working with Nicole, I felt honestly kind of lost in the dating scene. I had lost a lot of my confidence. Online dating really sucks, and the pandemic really made it worse. I would have numerous first dates and never really go on beyond that. Through my sessions with Nicole I definitely regained my confidence and regained my self-love. I'm looking at dating with a different perspective. Within the first month of working with Nicole I started noticing a difference in my dating life. She took the appropriate steps so that I would start seeing a little bit of a change right away. My demeanor has changed, my attitude toward dating has changed.
"Nicole helped me get my mojo back "
When I first met Nicole, I was confused and frustrated with dating. I couldn’t understand why my date prospects were so minimal and it felt like dating was a horrible experience to go through rather than the fun and hopeful experience it had been in the past. I had written a list of the type of man that would be my dream. Four weeks into the program I met him and we have the most fulfilling relationship I have ever had.
"Nicole changed my perspective on dating and relationships"
I got recommended to Nicole by a friend. I was in an all time love low. I booked 1:1 session with Nicole and I was hooked. She taught me to love myself most. Know my worth, love a man that shows up, no game playing and best of all she taught me to let go. Let go of past relationships, heartbreak and thinking I wasn't enough. I took this into my next serious relationship and now I'm married. Thank you Nicole your time and advice.
"Nicole taught me to love myself most and know my worth "
— J. Met the man of dreams
Before working with Nicole, I felt honestly kind of lost in the dating scene. I had lost a lot of my confidence. Online dating really sucks, and the pandemic really made it worse. I would have numerous first dates and never really go on beyond that. Through my sessions with Nicole I definitely regained my confidence and regained my self-love. I'm looking at dating with a different perspective. Within the first month of working with Nicole I started noticing a difference in my dating life. She took the appropriate steps so that I would start seeing a little bit of a change right away. My demeanor has changed, my attitude toward dating has changed - Nicole helped me I get my mojo back.
"Nicole helped me I get my mojo back"
— D. regained her confidence and her self-love
When I first met Nicole, I was confused and frustrated with dating. I couldn’t understand why my date prospects were so minimal and it felt like dating was a horrible experience to go through rather than the fun and hopeful experience it had been in the past. I had written a list of the type of man that would be my dream. Four weeks into the program I met him and we have the most fulfilling relationship I have ever had.
"Nicole changed my perspective on dating and relationships"
— L. FOUND HER PERFECT MAN AFTER 4 WEEKS
Nicole helped me realized my self-worth. Through her caring nature and motivating coaching, she helped me create a new story of my past. She helped me see and believe that I am capable of loving again, that I am deserving off all that my heart desires and wants in a relationship, and that I am worth it! I am now attracting more of the men that I need and want in my life.
Nicole's approach is very meaningful; she is understanding and makes you feel so up-lifted after having sessions with her.
"She helped me see and believe that I am capable of loving again"
— Z. NO LONGER COMPROMISES
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Danica went from questioning her life and purpose, to finding the loving relationship she had always dreamed of.
Paige has changed the way she looks at men and is now excited about dating.
Ready to Attract the Love You Deserve?
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If dating feels exhausting, confusing, or discouraging,
it’s time for something different.
If dating feels exhausting, confusing, or discouraging—
it’s time for something different.
It’s Time to Become Magnetic and Attract the Love You Deserve
Click to hear how...
Danica went from questioning her life and purpose, to finding the loving relationship she had always dreamed of.
Paige has changed the way she looks at men and is now excited about dating.
Frequently Asked Questions
WHY DO I KEEP ATTRACTING EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN?
WHY AM I STILL STUCK EVEN
AFTER THERAPY?
Awareness alone doesn’t change dating patterns. Therapy builds insight, but lasting change happens when you shift the subconscious beliefs and nervous system patterns underneath. If those deeper patterns aren’t addressed, you can understand your behavior and still find yourself repeating the same experiences in dating. This is where real transformation happens, at the level where the pattern was created.
Because awareness alone doesn’t change dating patterns. Therapy builds insight, but lasting change happens when you shift the subconscious beliefs and nervous system patterns underneath.
That’s your nervous system, not a personality flaw. If inconsistent or unavailable love felt familiar, your body learned that as your attachment pattern. This work helps you feel calm, secure, and grounded in dating.
That’s your nervous system, not a personality flaw. If inconsistent or emotionally unavailable love felt familiar, your body learned that as your attachment pattern. So even when you want to feel calm and secure, your system can default to anxiety, overthinking, or attaching quickly. This work helps regulate those patterns so you feel grounded, clear, and more secure in dating.
WHY DO I FEEL ANXIOUS IN DATING OR GET ATTACHED TOO FAST?
HOW DO I STOP OVERGIVING AND LOSING MYSELF IN RELATIONSHIPS?
Over-giving is a pattern, not the root issue. It’s driven by a subconscious belief that you have to earn love by giving more than you receive. When that shifts, healthy boundaries feel natural and secure.
Overgiving is a pattern, not the root issue. It’s often driven by a subconscious belief that you have to earn love by giving more than you receive. This can look like overextending, people-pleasing, or prioritizing someone else’s needs over your own. When that belief shifts, boundaries stop feeling forced, and start feeling natural, steady, and
self-respecting.
knowing isn’t the same as changing your patterns. Your mind may recognize red flags, but your nervous system is drawn to what feels familiar, even if it’s not healthy. That’s why you can “know better” and still choose the same type of partner. This work rewires that internal pull so your choices begin to align with what you actually want.
Because knowing isn’t the same as changing your patterns. Your mind may recognize red flags, but your nervous system is drawn to what feels familiar.
This work rewires that pattern at
the root.
WHY DO I KEEP CHOOSING THE WRONG MEN EVEN WHEN I
KNOW BETTER?
WHY DO I KEEP CHOOSING THE WRONG MEN EVEN WHEN I KNOW BETTER?
HOW DO I ACTUALLY BREAK MY DATING PATTERNS...NOT JUST UNDERSTAND THEM?
By working at the level where patterns are created and reinforced. The R.E.A.L. Love Method™ shifts subconscious beliefs and nervous system patterns that drive your attraction and behavior in dating. So instead of just having insight, you experience real change in how you show up, what you tolerate, and who you’re drawn to. That’s what allows new, healthier relationship patterns to form, and last.
it’s not just about your choices, it’s about the subconscious beliefs driving your dating patterns. If you believe love requires you to chase, prove, or shrink, you’ll be drawn to emotionally unavailable men who reflect that dynamic. These patterns often form early and repeat automatically, even when you consciously want something different. When that belief shifts, who you attract, and what you’re available for, shifts too.
It’s not just about your choices, it’s about the subconscious beliefs driving your dating patterns. If you believe love requires you to chase, prove, or shrink, you’ll be drawn to emotionally unavailable men who reflect that. When that belief shifts, who you attract shifts too.
HOW DO I ACTUALLY BREAK MY DATING PATTERNS...NOT JUST UNDERSTAND THEM?
By working at the level where patterns are created. The R.E.A.L. Love Method™ shifts subconscious beliefs and nervous system patterns, so you don’t just understand your patterns, you
change them.
Ready to Attract the Love You Deserve?
Yes, I want to more
If dating feels exhausting, confusing, or discouraging—
it’s time for something different.
If dating feels exhausting, confusing, or discouraging,
it’s time for something different.
You can attract the secure, committed relationship you truly want.
You can date with clarity, confidence, and ease.
You can stop settling for men who don’t show up the way you want.
It's Time to Become Magnetic to Love That Feels Effortless
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