Find Love Without the Confusion, Chasing, or Settling.

Find Love Without the Confusion, Chasing, or Settling.

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Dating & Relationship Coaching for Women Who Are Ready for More

Tired of overanalyzing texts, waiting on mixed signals, or wondering why you keep attracting men who aren’t ready? 

Tired of overanalyzing texts, waiting on mixed signals, or wondering why you keep attracting men who aren’t ready? 

You're Not Alone

And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.

You’re putting yourself out there, but dating is starting to feel more draining than exciting.

You meet a guy, things seem promising at first, and then suddenly…

He says he’s not ready for a relationship—but still wants to keep seeing you.

He talks about a future with you but never takes real steps toward commitment.

He acts interested one day and distant the next, leaving you confused and anxious.

When you’re together it's great, but when you’re apart, you have anxiety...making you want to give up on dating.

And you’re left wondering: 
Should I wait? Should I walk away? How do I even respond to this?

Tired of overanalyzing texts, waiting on mixed signals, or wondering why you keep attracting men who aren’t ready? 

Tired of overanalyzing texts, waiting on mixed signals, or wondering why you keep attracting men who aren’t ready? 

You're Not Alone

And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.

You’re putting yourself out there, but dating is starting to feel more draining than exciting.

You meet a guy, things seem promising at first, and then suddenly…

He says he’s not ready for a relationship—but still wants to keep seeing you.

He talks about a future with you but never takes real steps toward commitment.

He acts interested one day and distant the next, leaving you confused and anxious.

He’s great when you’re together, but when you’re apart, he barely texts or makes an effort.


Should I wait?
Should I walk away?
How do I even respond to this?

And you’re left wondering: 

So why does love feel like the one area where you keep running into the same frustrating patterns?

In almost every other part of your life, you’ve got your sh*t together. You’re confident, successful, and know what you want.

I help women like you break free from unhealthy patterns, build unshakable confidence, and attract the love you deserve.

Hey Girlfriend!

  • Why won’t he commit?
  • How do I respond when he says he’s not ready?
  • Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?
  • How do I stop wasting time on the wrong guys?
  • Why do men pull away after showing interest?
  • Why am I still single?
  • How do I communicate my needs without pushing him away?

Then you’re in the right place.

I’m Nicole, a dating and relationship coach with over 15 years helping HUNDREDS OF women step into their power, become magnetic in love, and finally experience the secure, committed relationship they want.

Ready to stop the guesswork and start dating with confidence?

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Get personalized coaching tailored to your specific dating and relationship challenges. We'll create a custom game plan just for you

1-1 Coaching

Perfect for you if: You want one-on-one expert guidance to work through your unique challenges and break free from frustrating patterns.

Perfect for you if: You’re done with dating struggles and ready for a structured, step-by-step plan to attract and keep a committed relationship.

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Learn About coaching

Ways We Can Work Together

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Get personalized coaching tailored to your specific dating and relationship challenges. We'll create a custom game plan just for you

Perfect for you if: You want one-on-one expert guidance to work through your unique challenges and break free from frustrating patterns.

Perfect for you if: You’re done with dating struggles and ready for a structured, step-by-step plan to attract and keep a committed relationship.

Learn More About coaching

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Love

  • Recognize Your Patterns—so you stop repeating the same unhealthy cycles in love.
  • Elevate Self-Trust—so you stop second-guessing yourself and confidently set boundaries.
  • Align with High-Value Dating—so you attract emotionally available men who want commitment.
  • Love with Ease—so you can no longer feel powerless in love, but instead, choose relationships that feel secure and fulfilling love.

WHY WORK WITH A DATING & RELATIONSHIP COACH?

If you’re feeling stuck in dating—repeating the same frustrating cycles—it’s not bad luck, it’s a pattern.

The R.E.A.L. Love Method™ helps you break free by shifting from confusion, self-doubt, and anxiety to confidence, clarity, and deep self-trust—so you can finally attract the secure, lasting love you deserve.

Through personalized coaching, group support, and proven dating strategies, I help YOu:

Love

  • Recognize Your Patterns- so you stop repeating the same unhealthy cycles in love.
  • Elevate Self-Trust—so you stop second-guessing yourself and confidently set boundaries.
  • Align with High-Value Dating—so you attract emotionally available men who want commitment.
  • Love with Ease—so you can no longer feel powerless in love, but instead, choose relationships that feel secure and fulfilling love.

WHY WORK WITH A DATING & RELATIONSHIP COACH?

If you’re feeling stuck in dating—questioning your choices, attracting emotionally unavailable men, or replaying the same frustrating dynamics—it’s not just bad luck. It’s a pattern.

But the good news? Patterns can be broken

The R.E.A.L Love Method™ 
helps you shift from confusion, self-doubt, and anxiety in dating—to confidence, clarity, and deep self-trust, so you can finally attract the healthy, lasting relationship you deserve.

Through personalized coaching, group support, and proven dating strategies, I help women:

Dating isn’t about “getting lucky.” It’s about who you choose, how you show up, and the energy you bring—and you can shift all of that starting today.

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"Nicole's positive energy ignited me and started my journey back to finding myself."

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Nicole is so easy to talk to; just like talking to your best friend or sister. I felt very at ease. She asked those probing questions to get beyond the surface feelings. I actually had "homework" that engaged my mind and had me focus on what really mattered. I loved that! I'm still a work in progress but Nicole has lead me out of my dark place and has helped me to see the value of being my true self and best of all…Own My Power.

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"Nicole taught me strategies to feel more confident in dealing challenging situations."

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Nicole helped me recognize the untrue conscious and unconscious stories I was telling myself that were causing me grief and remaining stuck. She taught me strategies to overcome my limiting beliefs and to feel more confident in dealing with challenging situations. I'm able to identify how I feel and what I need both from myself and others. This has helped me disregard the chatter and be more focused more on what matters to me. 

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"I  feeling more confident and hopeful for my future relationships"

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"It might be a difficult thing to admit that you are looking for some help with your relationships, but this course is really about so much more than that. It is about you and learning more about yourself. Through doing the work, you are evolving into a more knowledgeable space about you which can help you with all your other relationships, though of course, the focus is on a romantic relationship.
 Nicole is a master at helping you navigate what is holding you back (or the world from approaching you) and working through that. Whatever your relationship history and where ever you want it to be, this is the place to start you on that journey. "

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"Nicole's positive energy ignited me and started my journey back to finding myself."

PREV

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Nicole is so easy to talk to; just like talking to your best friend or sister. I felt very at ease. She asked those probing questions to get beyond the surface feelings. I actually had "homework" that engaged my mind and had me focus on what really mattered. I loved that! I'm still a work in progress but Nicole has lead me out of my dark place and has helped me to see the value of being my true self and best of all…Own My Power.

PREV

NEXT

"Nicole taught me strategies to feel more confident in dealing challenging situations."

Nicole helped me recognize the untrue conscious and unconscious stories I was telling myself that were causing me grief and remaining stuck. She taught me strategies to overcome my limiting beliefs and to feel more confident in dealing with challenging situations. I'm able to identify how I feel and what I need both from myself and others. This has helped me disregard the chatter and be more focused more on what matters to me.

PREV

NEXT

"I  feeling more confident and hopeful for my future relationships"

It might be a difficult thing to admit that you are looking for some help with your relationships, but this course is really about so much more than that. It is about you and learning more about yourself. Through doing the work, you are evolving into a more knowledgeable space about you which can help you with all your other relationships, though of course, the focus is on a romantic relationship.
 Nicole is a master at helping you navigate what is holding you back (or the world from approaching you) and working through that. Whatever your relationship history and where ever you want it to be, this is the place to start you on that journey. 

How to Respond When a Guy Doesn’t Know What He Wants...

THE TRUTH? You don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle. You don’t have to waste time overanalyzing his behavior, questioning your worth, or waiting for him to “figure it out.”.


You deserve a relationship with someone who is clear, consistent, and ready 
for love.

You deserve a relationship with someone who is clear, consistent, and ready 
for love.

 yourself first

And that starts with choosing yourself first

And that starts with choosing

You don’t have to settle for confusion, mixed signals, or waiting for a man to change.


Ready to Stop Wondering and Start Attracting the Love You Deserve?

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You can stop overthinking and start trusting your intuition.

You can set boundaries with confidence—without fear of pushing him away.

You can become magnetic to the right kind of man—one who will pursue, prioritize, and commit.

You can finally feel secure, confident, and in control of your love life.

You don’t have to settle for confusion, mixed signals, or waiting for the man to change.


Ready to Stop Wondering and Start Attracting the Love You Deserve?

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