Have you heard “you’re such a great catch, I can’t understand why you’re still single” a few times too many?
Are your married friends starting families with the men of their dreams while you're still searching?
In a relationship with someone who you thought was your soulmate, but instead, find yourself lying next to this person, feeling lonely and disconnected from them?
Before you read any further, know that you are not alone. I’ve experienced all these roller-coaster highs and lows of dating right alongside you.
Believe me when I say, I’ve been where you are.
Whether you're single or looking to enrich an existing relationship, I support women through all things related to dating, love, and relationships.
a dating and relationship coach helping women find and keep the relationship they deserve.
Hey I'm Nicole
When you experience disappointment in love, it’s hard not to feel exhausted & frustrated.
You may ask yourself, is this me? Or, why can’t I make it work?
I was successful in every other aspect of my life with a thriving career as a counsellor, amazing friends, and supportive family, but I felt like I’d failed because I hadn’t found “that special person.”
One day, I found a man that I thought was the perfect guy for me. He was tall, sexy, self-aware, and had allll the qualities I looked for. I could see our future together—a ring on my finger, a whirlwind courtship, a beautiful wedding and family together. Finally, I could join my married friends in talking about wedding planning, buying a home together, and planning our lives together.
With such certainty of my future with this man, we embarked on a road trip so I could introduce him to family and friends with the anticipation that marriage would be around the corner.
He paused, and I’ll never forget how my stomach dropped when he said “I just want to be friends.”
Next thing I knew I was throwing his stuff in the yard, crying uncontrollably, absolutely heartbroken. As fast as I had been to envision my future, it was over just as quick. Leaving me feeling ashamed and worthless.
I didn't want anyone to know that yet another relationship had failed. Maybe I didn't have what it takes to go the distance. What was wrong with me?
It was in that moment, my face running with tears and snot that I had enough. I was ready to explore the deeper reasons why these relationship patterns continued, how to truly love me for me and make a real change.
Unpacking the car after our amazing week away together, I asked him what we should have for dinner that night.
In my exploration and study of dating, love, and relationships, I discovered the secrets of putting myself first, refusing to compromise my values, and being clear about my non-negotiables so I wouldn’t have to settle anymore.
It wasn’t an instantaneous change between cultivating these practices in myself and finding my guy, but once I did I was ready for that relationship and in a place to make that commitment.
I learned to set boundaries, have difficult conversations and create a healthy relationship that was in alignment to my authentic self.
Over the years, I cultivated these practices within myself until I met my Mr. Right in 2014, on an escalator of all places! The wonderful man I fell in love with was the whole package, kind, funny, intelligent and a great father to his beautiful twin girls.
Instead of pouring energy into relationships, I put my energy back into myself.
I spent hours researching, studying and devoting myself to working on my inner self.
Slowly, I began to shift the beliefs I had about myself and men.
That’s exactly what I want for you, too.
Without the skills and tools my years of study gave me, I may have looked the other way—how glad am I that I didn't!
Without the skills and tools my years of study gave me, I may have looked the other way—how glad am I that I didn't!
It wasn’t an instantaneous change between cultivating these practices in myself and finding my guy, but once I did I was ready for that relationship and in a place to make that commitment.
I learned to set boundaries, have difficult conversations and create a healthy relationship that was in alignment to my authentic self.
Over the years, I cultivated these practices within myself until I met my Mr. Right in 2014, on an escalator of all places! The wonderful man I fell in love with was the whole package, kind, funny, intelligent and a great father to his beautiful twin girls.
Instead of pouring energy into relationships, I put my energy back into myself.
I spent hours researching, studying and devoting myself to working on my inner self.
Slowly, I began to shift the beliefs I had about myself and men.
That’s exactly what I want for you, too.
"She taught me how to take responsibility, love and approve of myself."
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Working with Nicole was one of the best decisions I've ever made. She taught me how to take responsibility, love and approve of myself, embrace feminine energy, slash any fears and go about dating in a more intentional, aligned and playful way. Needless to say, it has paid off. I’ve met my finance within six months of working with Nicole. Thank you!
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"Nicole's positive energy ignited me and started my journey back to finding myself."
Nicole is so easy to talk to; just like talking to your best friend or sister. I felt very at ease. She asked those probing questions to get beyond the surface feelings. I actually had "homework" that engaged my mind and had me focus on what really mattered. I loved that! I'm still a work in progress but Nicole has lead me out of my dark place and has helped me to see the value of being my true self and best of all…Own My Power.
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"I now shift my thinking to be sync with what I want."
After working with Nicole as my relationship coach, I would hear her voice in my head telling me “why are you putting yourself down? You know, that way of thinking will impact the quality of men you attract” and then in the moment I would shift my thinking immediately to be more in sync with what I wanted to attract which was the very best man for me! Nicole asked me powerful thought provoking questions that got me to think deeply about what I really wanted in love and life. Thank you Nicole!
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"She helped me see and believe that I am capable of loving again."
Nicole helped me realized my self-worth. Through her caring nature and motivating coaching, she helped me create a new story of my past. She helped me see and believe that I am capable of loving again, that I am deserving off all that my heart desires and wants in a relationship, and that I am worth it! I am now attracting more of the men that I need and want in my life.
Nicole's approach is very meaningful; she is understanding and makes you feel so up-lifted after having sessions with her.
Nicole is so easy to talk to; just like talking to your best friend or sister. I felt very at ease. She asked those probing questions to get beyond the surface feelings. I actually had "homework" that engaged my mind and had me focus on what really mattered. I loved that! I'm still a work in progress but Nicole has lead me out of my dark place and has helped me to see the value of being my true self and best of all…Own My Power.
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Nicole helped me recognize the untrue conscious and unconscious stories I was telling myself that were causing me grief and remaining stuck. She taught me strategies to overcome my limiting beliefs and to feel more confident in dealing with challenging situations. I'm able to identify how I feel and what I need both from myself and others. This has helped me disregard the chatter and be more focused more on what matters to me.
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"It might be a difficult thing to admit that you are looking for some help with your relationships, but this course is really about so much more than that. It is about you and learning more about yourself. Through doing the work, you are evolving into a more knowledgeable space about you which can help you with all your other relationships, though of course, the focus is on a romantic relationship.
Nicole is a master at helping you navigate what is holding you back (or the world from approaching you) and working through that. Whatever your relationship history and where ever you want it to be, this is the place to start you on that journey. "
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As a dating & love coach with 20 years of counselling and coaching experience, I’ve helped hundreds of women embrace their feminine side, find confidence, happiness, and—yes—even lasting love.
I’ve accomplished it all through my signature framework, Confidence in Love™.
I’ve accomplished it all through my signature framework,
Confidence in Love™.
I started Nicole Talks Love 15 years ago with the belief that no one should have to sacrifice herself or settle for anything less than she deserves.
It’s my mission to help women everywhere uncover deeply rooted confidence in love.
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