Have you ever found yourself in difficult relationships and wondered why?

Many of my strong women clients experience this often, and here are three reasons why. Let me know if you can relate by leaving a comment below!

Here are 3 reasons why strong women attract difficult relationships.

#1  Strong Women are Strong Healers

Strong women are equipped to handle whatever curveballs may come their way. They’ve been through their share of pain and emotion and are equipped to handle both the pain and emotions of those who need healing, emotional support and comfort. Strong women know just what to say, what to do, and when and how to follow through with their words and actions. There’s no wonder why women who are strong healers would be attracting partners that need a lot of healing and attention.

#2  It’s a Challenge

And what strong woman doesn’t love a great challenge? No strong woman that I have ever met has turned down an opportunity to take up something of substance and challenge. If something is too easy, it may feel like something is wrong or missing. Whether it’s emotionally unavailable men or being the woman who allows the space for a man to become greater within themselves, we as women welcome a good challenge. And even if we don’t initially realize what we are signing onto, we dive head first into these realms of unknown.

#3  Resilience

Every strong woman is resilient. To be resilient, you must overcome adversity. Without obstacles to overcome, relationships, (or anything else in life), there would be no catalyst to prove a strong women’s strength. Ergo, that difficult relationship then becomes the very obstacle we subconsciously attract.

While other factors are at play when it comes to the kinds of relationships, we attract, being strong encourages us to sometimes stay within difficult relationships longer than we generally need to. Because we endure and think we can fix and save things, it is important to remember that these forms of relationships tend to come to those of us who are wise, aware, confident, and simply ready for them. And for those of us goddesses who are ready for them, or perhaps even currently in them, know you can and will be able to grow when difficult relationships show up in our lives.

So stay beautiful, ladies, and stay strong.

-Nicole