I bet you know women who seem to draw men to them like bees to honey. They aren’t necessarily the most beautiful women you know, either. But for some reason, they’ve got men dropping for them left and right!
Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered why you aren’t getting as much attention? You’re beautiful, smart and successful. Why aren’t you attracting more high-quality men?
There are a few simple strategies that are really effective when it comes to attracting great guys and having fun along the way.
While men certainly appreciate beauty, smarts, and ambition…deep down we all want to be able to kick back and have fun with the person we choose to spend our life with.
In fact…one of the most common trait men say they want in a woman is “FUN!”. You’ve probably noticed this while reading dating profiles!
Here are a few tips to make you stand out among other women and have fun with the men you date:
#1 Approach Dating With The Intention Of Having A BLAST
As you get older, it’s easy to get kind of serious and less spontaneous. You may even look at dating as “husband-hunting”. This will really put a damper on your dating experience! Instead of approaching dating with the mindset of “husband-hunting”, approach it with the intention of having a ton of fun!
Look for guys who want to try new things. Go on dates that sound exciting and make your heart race. On the first several dates with a guy, let go of any pressure and expectations and go simply to have a good time. Men love being around women who know how to have fun!
#2 Choose Active, Interactive or Engaging Date Activities
When a man asks you what you want to do, try to steer away from “dinner and a movie”. Once in a while, a movie can be a great way to unwind together, but especially in the early stages of relationship you want activities that give you the opportunity to get to know each other. Here are some creative dates that are fun, interactive and engaging:
- Mini Golfing
- Paint Nite
- Campfire, foil dinners, and s’mores in a nearby outdoor location
- Wine tasting at a winery somewhere scenic
- Kite flying
- Going to the zoo
- Fancy picnic on a high rooftop
- Hiking to see the sunrise/sunset
- Star gazing and an outdoor movie
- Fruit picking
- Ice fishing
- Museum touring
- Horseback riding
- Bowling and pizza
There are endless possibilities! Get creative, find similar interests and have FUN.
#3 Never Bash Other Women Or Men
Don’t waste any time on your dates bashing previous boyfriends, other women or anyone. Doing so will make you appear insecure and negative. Men don’t like to be around women who are catty or who tear other people down to make themselves look better. Negative comments can kill the mood quick, so be intentional with your words!
#4 Dress Comfortably
Whatever you choose to wear, make sure it’s something comfortable! Wearing clothes that feel tight, restricting, inflexible or that you have to adjust constantly will drive you crazy and make you less likely to have a good time. They may also make you less spontaneous if a fun opportunity or idea comes up! Feeling worried about your clothes also makes it harder to be confident, feel like yourself and be able to focus on having fun with your date.
#5 You Don’t Need Alcohol To Have Fun
A drink over dinner is fine, but don’t load up on drinks. This is unattractive, especially on a first or second date. Remember, he wants to get to know YOU. You are sexy, attractive, confident, and fun! You don’t need alcohol to relax or have a good time.
At the end of the day, relax. Be yourself. Let go of pressure and expectations. Date to have fun and get to know great guys. Be present. You’ve got this!!
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5 Ways To Have Fun With Men, Attract High-Quality Guys And Have A Blast Dating!
Apr 10, 2019