As New Year’s inches closer, the thought of new goals and resolutions are on the brain.

But thinking about the fresh start of January 1st can be both motivating and anxiety promoting. Maybe you’re excited about turning a new leaf, but also not sure where or how to start.

Especially when it comes to goals regarding dating and your love life, you may be wondering where to put your focus, or even if any positive change is possible for you.

I’m here to assure you that changes for the better ARE possible for the New Year, and I can help you do it.

If you want some one-on-one time to get some specific tips and practical insights catered to you personally, I would love to chat! Book a call with me here.

And in the meantime, here are 5 New Year’s Resolutions for Attracting Love:

1. Date yourself first.

It is hard to let someone in to authentically love you if you don’t already love yourself. So spend some time really diving into your inner self, and discovering what is truly amazing about you. Push away the insecurities and the doubts, and work on developing that love and confidence for yourself. Men will see that confidence as you shine more, and be drawn to it.

2. Decide what it is you want in a partner.

As women we seem to rely too heavily on the cliche phrases like “love at first sight” or “I just knew he was the one”, and we are led to believe that finding a partner is automatic and easy. Instead, we need to be putting in the time, discovering what we want, and then going out to attract that and look for that. So, what do you want in a partner? If you’re not sure what to look for, check out my blog post Do You Consider This When Dating and Meeting Men? for some help.

3. Get out as much as you can!

The more people you meet and conversations you start, the more chances you will have to find someone who is right for you. So go to events, concerts, libraries, parties, both places where you feel at home and places outside of your comfort zone. Smile and chat with everyone. You never know who you might hit it off with!

4. Have FUN with dating!

As we get older, it’s easy to get in our heads about dating, and let it become too serious. It makes sense, especially when we want so badly to find our person, and make it work. But not only can this drive men away, but I’m also betting it doesn’t make things fun for you either! Instead, go into this with the intention of having fun, creating great experiences, and meeting incredible people along the way! Men love being around women who know how to enjoy themselves. So let go of the pressure, try new things, and focus on having fun with those around you!

5. Let go of relationships that aren’t serving you.

Sometimes we hold on to unhealthy relationships without even realizing it. In talking with my clients over the years, I’ve found many reasons why this seems to happen so frequently, which you can read about here. But the bottom line is, we need to be honest with ourselves, and learn to let go. If it isn’t working out with someone, it is best for everyone involved to take a step back. This might be just the change you need to truly open your heart for someone else.

Which of these resolutions do you think will be most fitting for you? 

Get in touch and let me know! I personally respond to all of my emails, and would love to hear from you about your New Year’s dating goals.