I love, love. I really do. It’s so beautiful to me when two people who truly get each other make a happy life together. It’s heartwarming when I see relationships blossom from new friends to great friends to happily ever after. I love seeing people happy! It’s so irresistible to me. And I know finding your own true love is irresistible to you, too.
Yes, a good man can be hard to find.
What’s the Secret to Finding a Quality Guy?
Nevertheless, I don’t think this means that every relationship is meant to last. In fact, sometimes I think it’s best if a relationship ends.
Now, hear me out. I don’t think a relationship should end because of a minor disagreement, a miniature inconvenience, or because one party or the other needs to work out personal baggage. I think a huge part of relationships is working through issues, navigating differences, and loving each other despite life’s hardships. People who aren’t willing to put in the work for a solid relationship simply won’t have one.
What I mean, then, is that you shouldn’t get so caught up in holding onto a relationship that you neglect to realize it’s simply not a good fit. Some people who come into your life aren’t going to be good for you. Not everyone is going to treat you how you deserve to be treated, care about your wellbeing, or respect you, and that’s not a problem with you or the relationship–it’s a problem with them.
I know that finding a quality guy can be difficult–so much so sometimes that it’s way too easy to settle.
But I’m telling you: don’t settle!
Despite how it feels, there are quality guys out there who would LOVE an opportunity to care for you and love you. You just might need a little help readying yourself for that kind of guy!
Imagine a world where you can stop playing games, stop settling for less, and finally find a relationship that brings your life meaning and joy.
Imagine feeling confident, sexy, and free, rather than overlooked, unseen, or unappreciated.
Imagine finding a man who loves and adores you for who you are and doesn’t make you feel like you need to change in order to be seen as beautiful or loveable.
In order to find this guy, you have to stop settling for the guy who ignores your texts, doesn’t show up, or never remembers the lovely little details about you. You have to start noticing the red flags so you can keep yourself from getting emotionally attached to someone who won’t treat you well in the end. You have to understand yourself, your own self-sabotaging habits, and the thought-patterns you think convince you to settle.
You have to be willing to say “no” to someone who isn’t a good fit for you so you can say “yes” to the one who is.
If this sounds like difficult work, please know that it doesn’t have to be! In my group program, the Wingwoman Program, I share a sustainable method that will not only allow you to be your authentic self, but will also help you embody your feminine essence, feel empowered when relating to men, and have the confidence to express your boundaries and desires–all so that you can find the quality guy of your dreams.
I want you to know that a loving, lasting relationship is possible for you and that you don’t need to sacrifice yourself or settle for less than you deserve to have. I want to teach you how to notice red flags and how to pinpoint a quality guy. I want you to find your lasting love story!
If you have any questions, I’d love to talk to you more about it, so click here to schedule a “Let’s Talks Love” call with me!
Looking forward to hearing from you!
A Good Man is Hard to Find: What’s the Secret?
Feb 22, 2021