A word of advice when it comes to love – never settle for less than you deserve. Most of my clients are strong, independent women who know exactly what they want in life and are willing to work their butts off to get it. They put a lot of effort into dating and relationships, but they can’t seem to fill the gap in their love life. Can you relate? It’s frustrating, right? You know you have so much to offer, but you can’t seem to find the right person to share your life with.

Here’s the thing..

Many of these women make a common mistake – they settle. They get into relationships with guys who are decent enough, but there’s always something missing. Instead of exiting these relationships and making room for someone who is everything they want and deserve, they “hang in there” or and hope that the guy will change. “He doesn’t want marriage/children now, but he’ll come around…” or “He has so much potential…”

Spoiler alert: he’s not going to change, and neither will you and what you want.

If you keep settling for less than you want and need, there will never be room for someone to walk into your life and be everything you want and deserve. Trust me on this one. I know it’s tempting to settle for the best guy that happens to come along, but that’s not the way to find true love.

It’s only when you say “enough!” to guys who aren’t the right fit that you’ll be able to attract men who are.

I speak from experience. It was when I stopped wasting my time with guys who weren’t right for me that I was able to see the men who were there all along. They were right in front of my face, but I couldn’t see them because I was too busy with the wrong guys. And the funny thing is, I wasn’t right for those guys, either! I was holding them back from finding their ideal partner.

Are you settling for less? Ask yourself:

1. Are you currently settling for less than you want and deserve in your dating life? If so, what steps are you taking to break out of that pattern and attract the right kind of partner?
2. Have you ever held onto a relationship or person, hoping they would change?

If you’re ready to stop settling for less and start attracting the right kind of guy, I want to help you. Sign up for a call with me here.

Some of my other blog posts may be helpful to you. Read here for advice on how to break relationship patterns and here for improving your self-worth to attract the right man.