Relationships almost always start out full of love and hope for the future.

But lasting, happy relationships filled with growth and intimacy are rare.

Why does it feel like long-term love and companionship are…so hard to create?

Some blame it on the ending of “the honeymoon” period…

Some blame it on lousy communication…

Some even blame it on the kids!

After experiencing many relationships that were subpar, unfulfilling, one-sided, or downright BAD…I understand that none of these factors are truly to blame.

Do you want to know what it is?

Fear.

Sooner or later, fear takes over in a relationship and is allowed to grow like a weed.

With the passing of time, we begin to be full of more FEAR than we are of LOVE.

Fear of being unwanted.

Fear of being unseen.

Fear of failure.

Fear of being left.

Fear of being cheated on.

Fear of falling out of love.

All sorts of fears creep into our relationships and eventually rule and ruin them.

What happens when fear becomes stronger than love?

We stop communicating.

We stop sharing our wants and needs.

We act irrationally.

We stop forgiving.

We become competitors instead of companions.

Sound familiar?

How can you choose LOVE over FEAR? In dating, in your relationships, in your life?

It takes some serious inner work, but the payoff is WORTH IT.

You’re going to have to face your inner demons and do the work to defeat them (in other words…HEAL your inner child).

Truthfully? Most women will never do this. Either they’re too afraid, too busy, too focused on helping everyone else and not themselves, too tired, or too committed to playing it “safe” and staying in their comfort zone.

I know you’re different – isn’t that why you’re still reading…?

I promise you don’t have to let your past define your NOW anymore. You CAN heal. You CAN change. You CAN choose love.

The best part is…when you’ve done the work, when you’ve made the inner change, when you’ve learned to navigate fear, when you become a woman who truly leans into love…you’re going to attract men who have done the same.

So, are you ready to get to work?