You’re smart, successful, and want to be in a happy, lasting relationship.

But you keep meeting guys who let you down or are in relationships that don’t satisfy you.

With so many men to date, so many dating apps, so many social events…you’re frustrated. And tired of wasting your time!

How can you “skip the line” and immediately find your ideal matches?

What is the key to attracting the calibre of man you want without wasting time going on hundreds of dates or being in a relationship that leads to disappointment?

Today I want to help you create a game-changer that will keep you from spending time and energy on unhealthy connections and relationships.

I call this personalized love strategy your Heart Compass.

You see, a lot of women spend years dating the wrong guys but never take the time to REALLY reflect on what didn’t work so that they can SHIFT in their next relationship.

If they never identify what was wrong, missing, or unhealthy about their previous experiences with men, they will keep attracting the same issues over. And over. And over again.

Sound familiar?

Your “Heart Compass,” which includes your relationship values, your core emotional needs, and your love standards (non-negotiable) is an effective guide to help you filter out the wrong matches or end relationships that are not a good fit sooner.

Here are a few questions to help you get started that will truly impact your love life!

Write this mantra and post it on to your mirror so you can focus on it daily:

I AM WORTHY OF A MAN WHO IS ALIGNED WITH MY HEART COMPASS.

Open up a fresh journal page. Write down as many things you know you need in a relationship in order to feel safe, secure and happy. These should be things that really matter to you, not surface things that don’t make a big difference in the long run.

For example:

• I need to feel I can be fully myself.
• I need to feel emotionally, physically, sexually, and spiritually safe with him.
• I need 100% honesty.
• He needs to want the same thing I want (specify what this is, i.e. children, marriage, spiritual preferences, long-term goals, lifestyle).

Look over your list. Do you see any themes or similar things? Decide what your top five things or qualities you need to feel safe, secure, happy and deeply in love in your relationship.

Next, ask yourself, would I be in a relationship with this person if they don’t meet this need or have this quality?

This is one of the many exercises I have my clients do to help them uncover their Heart Compass.

Simple. Effective. Life-changing.

When a man comes along that DOES NOT align with your Heart Compass…he is a NO.

That might sound harsh, but it’s actually a fantastic way to date. You don’t waste time leading along someone who doesn’t want the same things you do and who is not the right match. Even if he is cute…you have chemistry…whatever.

You CAN date with these kinds of standards in place! And you are worthy of a man who is aligned with your Heart Compass

Remember – you’re looking for your forever love and partner in life. If there was ever anything to be strict about, it’s who you choose as your spouse!

Do you want some help uncovering your Heart Compass?

Book a complimentary consult with me HERE!